It has happened to everyone. Dinner was great and you
had an amazing conversation, but then at the end of the date you
don't even get a peck on the cheek. Was she not into you? How
can you really tell? If you understand body language, you would
know within the first five minutes of the date whether she likes
you or not. And you don't have to have a degree in psychology to
figure it out either.
First thing you have to understand is that most people don't pay
any attention to their body language. It's an involuntary
reaction that is the result of hormones. So no matter what her
words are saying, her body may be saying something completely
different. It's your job to listen. For example, you have been
at the restaurant for five minutes and you are discussing some
random topic, now look her directly in the eye and note her
reaction. Does she look right back or you, or does she divert
her eyes elsewhere? Eye contact is one of the major body signs
that show a person is interested in you. If they like you and
have an interest in what you are saying, their eyes will be
focused on yours. Eye contact should be the first thing you
notice whenever you meet anyone. It could be a dead giveaway
that the girl at Starbucks really does like you.
Second note where her hands are. When people are sexually
attracted to another person they will subconsciously touch their
own body parts that they think are sexually attractive, to bring
attention to them. She may be biting her lip or leaning forward
to enhance her cleavage. It could be something very subtle like
scratching her arm and inadvertently rubbing her breasts. If you
have been dating for a while, she may be bolder and find ways to
touch you during the conversation. She could brush against your
hand or put her hand on your knee while you talk, all of which
mean that she is into you.
If you pay attention to these two body clues, you will be able
to make the most out of each and every date. If the feeling is
not mutual don't order dessert and cut the evening short. You
will have much better luck going to Starbucks to find that girl
that was into you.
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