Communication is the key to your success at work, at play, and at home. Here are six tips that will make a difference in your life: 1) People judge others by their actions. This means you are being judged by the
perceptions you create with your words and actions. For example, if you act angry,
even though you feel otherwise, you will be judged as being hostile. If you sound
helpless, even though you feel otherwise, you will be judged as being ineffective.
Thus, choose actions and words that convey the impression you want to make. 2) People judge themselves by their intentions. Thus, acknowledge that the other
person's actions or words are correct and proper (as seen by that other person).
Even when someone's behavior appears completely absurd, that person most likely
believes it is justified. 3) Everyone deserves courtesy and respect. Diplomacy gains more than hostility. It is
always the best way to begin a dialogue. After all, no one has ever had to apologize
for being courteous. When you treat others with respect, you set the standard for
how you want to be treated. 4) Everyone has valuable ideas. Everyone is an expert in some area. Everyone has
unique talents. A leader helps other people excel at expressing their ideas. 5) You can accept anything without agreeing with it. Thus, acknowledge amazing
requests with statements such as: "That's an interesting idea." "That's a novel request." "What an intriguing question." 6) Realize that you can always learn more about the other person's needs, priorities,
and situation. Ask questions. Seek solutions. Think positive. Quick reactions often
lead to apologies. Start by being thoughtful and seeking to understand fully. IAF Certified Professional Facilitator and author Steve Kaye works with leaders who
want to be more effective. His innovative workshops have informed and inspired
people nationwide. His facilitation produces results that people will support. Call
714-528-1300 or visit his web site for over 100 pages of valuable ideas. Sign up for
his free newsletter at http://www.stevekaye.com
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