A 16 year old boy from Connecticut has a rare form of dwarfism. He was a little over 3 feet tall and weighed only 42 pounds. A school dance was coming up and he wanted so much to go. He approaches a girl he secretly admired and asked her if she would like to accompany him to the dance. She turns him down. Later on he asks another girl only to be rejected once again. Disappointed and figuring he’d probably never be accepted for who he was, he makes plans to stay home the evening of the dance.
A few days later a girl from the school, a very pretty girl who probably could have gone out with most any of the guys in her school, heard about what happened. Now I don’t know if this girl already had plans ongoing with her boyfriend, was thinking about going, or had a compassionate boyfriend who understood what this girl was going to do and signed on to it, it doesn’t really matter. The girl approaches the boy with the dwarfism and asks him if he would be interested in accompanying her to the dance. The boy was ecstatic. According to him, “it was the happiest day of my life.” The two went to the dance and had a great time.
No doubt this situation had a profound impact on this boys life. It wasn’t just the dance, it was the fact that the boy was shown respect by this girl when most others didn’t have the courage to do so. It gave him hope. It showed him that his value isn’t wrapped up in some neat flesh package and put on the self for those to either purchase or reject, but somebody who was, as he put it, “appreciated.”
Considering the fact that the doctor only gives this boy 10 or so years to live due to the rareness of his dwarfism, happy moments like this couldn’t come often enough.
I know I said this before and I’ll say it again; having the courage to show compassion to someone who is shown none is far more heroic then some big league guy hitting a baseball over the fence. The thrill of the home run last but a few moments. The compassion someone feels from being respected lasts a lifetime.
Dan Celentano has worked with a variety of at risk kids for close to
30 years. He is author of a book for teenagers entitled
Ten Essential Facts of Life Every Teenager Should
Know ( see www.teenage-book.com ), and gives advice to teenagers
on his web site www.choicesforteens.com In addition to this, Mr.
Celentano speaks to high school students on various issues having to
do with teenagers. Currently Dan is preparing for his next project
which is working with blind children on his ranch.
Dan Celentano is available for freelance writing and can be contacted
at ranch@copper.net.
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