Dating Advice for Men - Learn to Cancel Proof Your Dates!
Chris Benjamin
Getting flaked on by a woman sucks - we all know this. You finally get up the nerve to ask her out, she says yes, and then 3 hours before the date, she calls with some BS line about her grandma dying, so she has to cancel. I don't know about you - but if the number of women who have had a relative die RIGHT BEFORE OUR DATE was really true - just call me the reaper, man!
So is there anything you can DO about it? Well, as a matter of fact, there is. The thing is, most guys don't know this, and this is one of the FUNDAMENTALS of dating advice - how to AVOID the flake! So let's talk about how.
First things first - you need to tell her - point blank - that you HATE flakes! When you are standing in front of her working out when you are going to meet, look her right in the eye and TELL her that your time is valuable, and you totally get peeved when people flake out on plans. So in other words, you are only going to make plans with her if she is GOING to BE THERE.
Sometimes you might scare her off by saying that. That's ok. Better to scare her off in the beginning, to separate the wheat from the chaff so to speak, before you invest anything in it.
The thing is, when you say this to a woman, you are telling her that your time is VALUABLE. It shows her that your TIME is more important to you than meeting her, which tells her in turn that your status is possibly a little higher than hers is.
On to the next situation. The day you are supposed to have your date, she calls you up and wants to cancel because her mother returned from the dead. This is the perfect time to use some Cocky Comedy on her and recoup the situation. Say to her, "Ok, fine. But when are you gonna make it up to me?"
So here you have a great chance to bust her balls a little bit. Keep in mind, though, using Cocky Comedy, you have to keep it light enough to NOT let her think you are hurt in any way, or you will lower your Alpha-Male status in her eyes, which is a killer for attraction.
Now another method some of the PUAs of the day use to keep their Flake Out Percentage at an all-time low is to actually BE the one to flake. Counter-intuitive, I know. But, David Deangelo says that if you do that, what you are really doing is making ANOTHER date with her right there on the phone, and adding fuel to the fire of her anticipation. Which is ALWAYS a good thing.
Most of the time, your problems with women are created because of your own WUSSY behavior. I mean, you are never going to get to the point where you NEVER have trouble again. You may as well say that it's never going to rain again. But you CAN get to the point where you are on the ball and actually preventing most of the problems before they happen!
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