If You Want His Attention - Look Him in the Eye!
Sarah Love
Eye contact is a part of body language that many women do not think too much about. Eye contact, however, can be used to genuinely create attraction between a man and a woman. Think about this - the iconic flirting "picture" is a woman batting her eyelashes, right? Well, there is a lot more to it than that, but they have the right idea!
In order to send out the right kind of communication with eye contact, it is essential to hold the person's gaze for longer than they are looking at you. In other words - it's not a stare down, but you want to be the last to look away. It's a very subtle thing, but also very potent.
So to use this in flirtation and attraction - if you see a man who (literally) catches your eye - do not be the one to break the eye contact first. It seems uncomfortable at first - most women are very USED to looking away first. But if you want to up his level of attraction - hold your eye contact with him.
If you find it difficult - you are not alone! Most women, including myself, have found it difficult to do at first. The thing is - different is GOOD in attraction. If something catches your curiosity - it is more than likely that the thing is DIFFERENT than the things around it. See where I am going with this?
You need to practice though. So next time you are at Wal Mart, practice! Start looking every single man you see right in the eye, until he looks away. Do it until it becomes second nature to you and you are actually comfortable with it.
Keep in mind - you are not trying to "stare him down" or overpower him. So if you are having a conversation, DO look away occasionally. Just show him that you are comfortable, he has your attention, and you are a strong and intelligent woman.
After the conversation has continued for a while and you have made some good headway with him, be sure to let something else catch your attention briefly. If you can, chat briefly with another person or "see" someone you know and wave. Let your attention be diverted from him. Then - when you come back to him, it is more exciting to him seeing that he may have to work to hold your attention.
On your first date with him, too, you can do even more to keep him guessing just a little bit. Act a little "friendlier" than usual - not like flirty friendly - but like a buddy. This will make him a little unsure of his effect on you, and will keep him trying harder to grab your interest.
These are simple things that women can do to get - and keep - the attraction of a man you are interested in. Keep him guessing a little, keep him working at it, and you will keep him attracted - to YOU!
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