If you take the general boyfriend breakup excuses to heart you may never find out what is truly at the heart of the breakup. Chances are that he doesn't really know the exact reason why. He only knows that all is not well in the relationships.
Men really don't just give up a relationship for a single reason. They slowly grow and tame those lame feelings about you inside and will just suddenly snap if they could not hold it any longer. Be cautious of those negative feelings and get your boyfriend back with a clear head.
Here are some tips that will help you:
Analyze the Relationship
Recall when and how the conflict between the both of you began. Was there an argument that was never settled? A secret that was accidentally discovered? These things if not resolved could have created the wall in the relationship. Find out what really caused the problem so you can come up with a solution to bond the division.
Self Assess the Damage
When you get to figure out the cause of conflict, analyze whether it is repairable or not. Learning about the real problem will help you conceive the right solution.
If cheating or having an affair with someone was the cause of the conflict, do not expect to repair the damage in a short time. Let time pass before trying to resolve the damage.
Heal the Wound
Before you apologize you need to do some serious soul searching and decide if the behavior or action is worth the risk to your relationship (or in this case the loss of your relationship). If you cannot change the action that led to the end of your relationship then you might want to consider moving on. You can't really make amends until you are willing to do whatever it takes to make sure the situation doesn't repeat itself.
Say Sorry
Say sorry sincerely. Be willing to take the blame and don't ever pass it on him. This will prevent conflicts from rising and will deny your boyfriend the chance to make up lame excuses.
This is the hardest part; the defeating of those lame breakup excuses your boyfriend has. Remember that these excuses can become non-serious acts if the cause of the problem is figured out and ejected.
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