Is your best friend in rebound relationship with ex? This can be a tough one to handle. Your heart may feel as though it is being beaten and battered every time you see them together but you can get through this.
First off you must have a good sense to feel things. Take on the non-verbal cues. You'll have a feeling if the ex still wants you or simply over you. Trust me, you'll know.
If she's over you, it is probably best to let it go and let her be happy with her present love. If she still wants you then read on. I'll give you some tips on how to win her back.
You might also want to seriously think about whether you want your ex back or not. Your ex is sure to know that a relationship with the person you consider to be your best friend is sure to hurt you in more ways than one.
Make sure that you want her back because you love her. Not just because of your ego not accepting the fact that she could be happy with your best friend.
First thing to do is to establish contact. Be a friend and don't be too aggressive. Sort out your issues first. Once you're over with it, always be there for her and remind her through your actions how good it was when you were together.
A few points of advice- make yourself better. Avoid wallowing in self pity and work on looking good. Make your ex think that it was a big mistake letting you go. Again, keep your cool and act as if you don't want her anymore. It would drive your ex crazy thinking you got over her in such a short span of time. Remember, it's human nature to want what they can't have.
Be the man that she always wanted you to be. Relationships are never perfect and there are always things that she wants you to improve on. Work on that. Show her that you were always the man that she wanted you to be.
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