If you want to have a hope at all of getting your ex back you can't afford to fail these common breaking up tests. Keep in mind that a lot of relationships involve give and take. It's an important part of being a couple. However, when one partner is doing all the giving and the other all the taking it's not a healthy relationship.
Even then, when the relationship has ended sometimes the more dominant partner in the relationship will give these little "breaking up" tests to see just how much sway he or she carries with you. You cannot afford to fail these tests if you ever want to develop a healthy, lasting relationship with your ex.
What are these breaking up tests and how do you pass them?
Always There for Me Test
A situation where you are always ready when your ex needs you. This does not mean you have to be there do little things for her/him right away even if it means jeopardizing a very important thing you need to do.
There are moments when it becomes too serious that it could help you get closer again. But in other situations, you have to let your ex realize that you are no longer his girl/boy but rather his/her ex; for there is a tendency that she/he will get used to it.
Answer Upon the Phone Rings Test
We know you imagine the phone ringing and it is him/her calling. Stop... Don't answer that phone right away. Let it ring several times before you answer it. This will create an impression on your ex that you are busy with your life without him. It is given that your ex is already a part of your life, but there are other things you need to do for yourself. Your enthusiasm in answering the phone will give a clue to your ex on how important he is still to you.
The Two-Minute Text Turnaround Test
Your enthusiasm to reply to his messages will help your ex determine your eagerness and need to see and please him. This is what exes usually use worldwide. Replying to his message as soon as you receive it or within a few minutes it will create a bad image for you. Let him/her wait this time. Don't let him/her control you. You won't look good after all. A relationship should be a hand-in-hand situation - each one for each other. But if this reality is not clear when you are not together, then it will not be good either if ever you get back together.
This break up test is a good way for both of you to realize that you are both individuals, that you have different lives to live other than just living for him or her.
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