Do you know what charm is?
Most people don't.
Most men think bragging ad nauseam about their accomplishments, about all the interesting places they've been, and about girls they've conquered is charming.
This has nothing to do with charm. If anything, it's anti charm.
A lot of females complain endlessly about all the things that go wrong in their life to their friends and male suitors. Instead of attracting people, it repels them. If they feel a need to complain, they should save it for their psychiatrist.
What does it mean to be a charmer?
Charmers are consummate manipulators and oftentimes sociopaths.
However, most people are so worried about themselves that they cannot discern when the charmer is manipulating them.
There's another thing that prevents us from recognizing when the charmer is manipulating us.
There's a misconception in our culture that manipulators and sociopaths lack the ability to empathize.
But most manipulators and sociopaths are masters at empathizing.
To empathize means to understand where the other person is coming from. It means to know what it's like to walk in the other person's boots.
Although many charmers are devoid of any sympathy, they are great at demonstrating empathy. This is what makes them so deadly.
A charmer makes others feel like he understands them.
He does not care about being the center of attention. Instead he lets others be the star and have the spot light.
By doing this he's playing on people's biggest weaknesses: their ego, vanity, and self-esteem.
As soon as they drop their defenses and become dependent on him, he goes in for the kill and manipulates them.
I am not suggesting you take advantage of people or mutate into a sick and twisted Sith lord.
However, there are many lessons to glean from studying the charmer. If you put your oversize ego aside and allow women to shine, they'll become your loyal slaves. They'll depend on you for validation
In no time, they'll be buying you dinner and driving you around.
Here's your homework:
Take a few moment to imagine a person you enjoy being around.
I'm willing to bet these are people who make you feel good about yourself. They allow you to be the center of attention and laugh at your jokes.
That's how you want to make women feel.
Why? Because when we like someone we are willing to go out of our way for him.
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