From when we were babies to hitherto social pressures have forced us into the role of being a man.
We were discouraged to act feminine. It's part of being socialized.
This was dinned into us by our mother and father; by books we read and TV shows we watched; and by our teachers in school.
Let's look at an example.
I want you to do something educational: schlep over to a toy store.
At every toy store they have a section for boys and one for girls. Boys aren't supposed to go into the girl's section unless they are buying a present for their little sister.
In the boys section you'll find G.I. Joes, Transformers, and Thomas the Train.
For the girl's, you'll find toys such as Brats.
These toys aren't just "toys." They're teaching aids for training kids to become a man or a woman.
If a boy is caught brushing a Brat doll's hair his friends will most likely make fun of him and call him a girl.
If his parents catch him, they may punish him. That's because they fear he won't be properly inculcated into the role of a man.
This causes boys and men alike to stay clear of acting like a girl.
There's nothing wrong with this except that some of the best seducers have developed their feminine side. These men are called "Dandies."
They oscillate between the role of a man and a woman.
In fact, their seductive power lies in that they cannot be categorized as masculine or feminine.
When a person cannot be categorized, they entrance others. We are attracted to those who entrance us.
The famous psychiatrist Dr. Freud famously said that people are bisexual. According to him, all of us are attracted to both males and females.
But social constraints prevent us from acting on these desires.
Women are attracted to the Dandy because he is a woman inside a man's body.
Dandies have an impudence towards pleasing women. Ironically, women find this quality intoxicating.
Here's a simple guide to turning yourself into a Dandy: learn to pay attention to the smallest details, develop a disdain for pleasing others, and nurture your feminine side.
I want to leave you with a quote from Pablo Picasso: "I am a woman. Every artist is a woman and should have a taste for other women. Artists who are homosexual cannot be true artists because they like men, and since they themselves are women they are reverting to normality."
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