You are not sure whether your husband's remorse for his cheating is good enough for you to forgive him. You wonder, "What if he was not caught cheating?" He probably would have been doing the same thing. But because you caught him red-handed, you gave him no other choice but to say sorry and promise not to do the deed again. But is this good enough for you to give him another chance?
Your marriage will only be worthy of a second chance provided that both of you are willing to put together some changes and strive for an improved outlook as a couple. Cheating has always been the result of bigger problems in a relationship, so you have to take note of that.
There are some men who still cheat even if there is really no problem with their marriage. These men are the exception and not the rule. But because such acts are rampantly happening in our society, many women believe that this is the rule itself.
Identifying the Problem
Being the last person to find out your husband's affair with another woman does not imply your lack of familiarity to him. You know your husband more than any individual, so you've got to live with that notion.
The weird thing is that you already felt something odd about your husband but did not admit it to yourself until you saw it with your own eyes. This means you can still rely on your instinct when it comes to your husband, and it can still serve you fine. But can you identify if he's really sincere with his remorse or just showing you crocodile tears?
Can You Change His Heart?
Do some probable sentiment persuasion if you think your husband is still lying. Have that will to persuade his sentiments towards you and your marriage in order to keep your relationship from falling apart. This may not sound promising, but it's always worth the try.
Are you thinking that taking risks for your marriage is all worth it? Are you ready to risk your own heart in order to save what you believe is all worth it?
You can change his heart and ultimately save your marriage even if he isn't participating in your efforts just yet. Even if your husband is only sorry that he got caught cheating he can be genuinely sorry that you were hurt by his cheating. There is still hope for the husband who feels this way and the marriage you have together.
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