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When you feel a certain need or strong desire to replicate a
particular behavior notwithstanding its end results and upshots,
the condition can be attributed or classified as addiction.
In reality, there are many factors that precipitate an
addiction. These factors are the ones responsible in instilling
in the minds of the people the conduciveness they get whenever
they use a certain behavior or concept.
However, the very core of addiction is that it should cause harm
to the concerned person. This is because if the behavior does
not cause any harm, then, the behavior can only be considered
compulsive but cannot be classified as addiction.
With the advent of the Internet, a new kind of addiction had
been created by people who continuously advocate the viability
of the Internet. This is known as Internet addiction.
Historically speaking, Internet addiction was first depicted by
Ivan Goldberg, a medical doctor from Columbia University.
Goldberg had initially differentiated Internet addiction from
other forms of addiction by asserting that this kind of
addiction is a ěmaladaptiveî outline of Internet usage, which,
in turn, leads to clinically major harm or misery.
Just like the other people who are addicted into something,
Internet addicts are notably preoccupied to the ětriggeringî
factor that stimulates them to do repeatedly the compulsive
behavior. They always find a way and a reason to justify their
need to use the computer and go online.
Moreover, Internet addicts contend that their resistance is so
weak that they are unable to gain control on their Internet
usage. When the time comes that somebody will do the curbing for
them, these Internet addicts would suddenly feel irritated if
somebody is trying to stop them from using the Internet.
As the manifestations worsen, they begin to lie about things and
hide from their friends and family the truth behind their
Internet usage. Their behavior exacerbate as they put their
lives, significant relationship, education, and job in danger.
Best of all, these people are using too much of the Internet.
They go beyond the normal utilization of the Internet. With
Internet addicts, it is as if they can stand the whole day
sitting, browsing, and chatting all day long.
The reason behind all these nuisances is based on the fact that
the Internet is such a pragmatic and feasible tool. What they
see is a new medium that gives them more than what they have
asked for. Its graphics are so innovatively nice and
fascinating, with every whoosh and flash of light and colors in
front of their eyes are pure excitement and awe.
The problem now lies on the fact that these people are no longer
capable of doing their everyday duties and responsibilities.
They have lost their contact from the outside world and shun
their life out from the reality. They relied so much on the
virtual phenomenon that they are addicted from.
Another problem with this behavioral addiction is based on the
fact that this kind of malady is simply not a matter of having
an alternative. This is because Internet addicts are left with
no choices at all and they simply cannot come to a decision with
regards to their addiction.
So, for those who are not yet aware if they are addicted to the
Internet or not, here is a list of some signs that would tell
you if you are an Internet addict.
1. You are an Internet addict if, after so many trials, you
simply cannot stop using the behavior.
Internet addicts may contend that they have tried everything
just to curb their ědeep fascinationî with the Internet.
What happens next is that they simply cannot get things going.
2. You are an Internet addict if you have the tendency to forget
your responsibilities at school, in the office, or even at your
home.
You start to wander off and neglect to do your respective
responsibilities on the three most important places in your life.
3. You are an Internet addict if you disregard danger and risk
just so you can continue to enjoy using the Internet.
4. You are an Internet addict if you always find it reasonable
enough to let you stay in the Internet for hours.
All of these things are boiled down to the fact that Internet
addiction is not just any trend or fad that will normally fade
or will be gone in time.
There is something that needs to be done now and curb the
growing compulsion to go back and try the behavior again. What
you need is a strong support that would entice you to go on, has
fun in life, but do not be constrained on the wonders of the
Internet.
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