The key to making time for art is the ability to say "NO."
If you say "yes" to everything that is asked of you, you will not
have time to be creative. And it is so easy to say "yes" to all
kinds of things and so hard to say "no." It is hard to say "no"
to immediate family, extended family, demands of friends,
organizations, messy houses, cluttered basements--the list
is endless.
Making art takes lots of time. It not only takes a great deal of
time to do whatever it is you are creating, but it also takes a
great deal time for what most people would consider "down
time." Artistic down time is a foreign concept to people who
are not artists. Our society values busyness over artistic
incubation, but you cannot create art without it.
You will feel immensely guilty saying to yourself that your art
is more important than time spent with a certain friend,
organization or clearing out that large dust bunny that is
appearing under your bed! But ask yourself, if there was
something really crucial, wouldn't you slash everything that
was unessential in your life to take care of it. The answer is
yes. Do the same thing with your art.
Learning how to say "no" takes practice. You may want to
communicate to your nearest and dearest your new priority,
so they won't feel emotionally abandoned. From time to
time you will get sucked into situations and events; and it
takes a great deal of effort to find a balance between
creating art and also having a meaningful life outside of that
endeavor.
But remember, "no" is a complete sentence. It will take
everyone some time to adjust to your new way of living.
There may be a lot of grumbling from a lot of people, but if
creating art is really important to you, let them grumble
away. You'll find out who your friends really are. The ones
that really care about you will want what's important for
you--to create art!
© Mary Baker 2005
Mary Baker is a contemporary realist painter, whose studio
is in Newburyport, Massachusetts. This New England city,
north of Boston, has been the inspiration for the artist’s
realistic oil paintings. Mary Baker is a professional artist and
has shown in New York art galleries.
You can visit Mary at her website, Mary Baker Art, http://www.marybakera
rt.com, see her beautiful paintings and read her
commentary on a variety of subjects concerning art,
including Why Buy Original Art and Art, Artists and the
Web--Why Every Artist Should Have Their Own Website.
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