Copyright 2006 Deborah Torres Patel
Have you ever wondered how celebrities manage to appear so
radiant? Or how they exude an indescribable extra something that
makes them magnetic? In this article I will share six easy ways
to help you cultivate your own charismatic style and
presentation by following simple yet timeless fashion tips.
1. Interview friends, family or colleagues who will give you an
honest opinion or engage an image consultant to determine what
colors & styles best suit you and are in harmony with your
natural features like your skin tone, eye and hair color.
2. Colors- A way to test if your colors are harmonious is to
look into a mirror in natural daylight while holding a piece of
clothing/fabric next to your eyes or directly underneath your
chin. Notice which stands out more - the color or your features.
Colors that are "right" put the focus on you and not the
garment. For example if you have ocean blue eyes, wearing the
same or complimentary blue color will make your eyes stand out
and people may comment about how well you look.
A color that is "wrong" often makes you look dull, drains your
energy, can be repulsive to you or may even cast a slight shadow
on your face. If you are wearing colors that aren't good for
you, people may remark that you look tired or ill even if you
feel fine.
If this color testing seems foreign, don't worry. With practice
you will begin to experience the subtlety of how colors can
influence your mood and instantly make you look and feel more
attractive.
3. Prints should be in proportion to your feature size based on
your body's natural geometry. For example if you have small to
medium size features, you should wear small to medium size
patterns and jewelry.
4. Shapes - The shape of your face and your features should
determine the shapes of your accessories and print designs. If
you have an oval face, you can wear oval earrings, necklines,
belt buckles and eyeglasses. Most of us are a variety of shapes
so we are able to combine them. For example you may have oval
eyes, a teardrop nose and a square chin. Again, it is helpful to
look into a mirror or at a recent photograph of yourself to
objectively determine which shapes you inherently possess.
5. Layering can make you more prepared for social situations.
For example, you will rarely be disrespected for being slightly
overdressed. When you wear layers, you can always take off a
jacket, tie, scarf or jewelry to occur less formal.
Before an important meeting ask questions in advance about
clothing guidelines. If you are doing a sales presentation or
public speaking, dress "a cut above" what your audience is
expected to wear. For example if the dress code is casual, go
smart or business casual.
Again, you can always roll up your sleeves to appear more
relaxed. But if are male and show up to a meeting with short
sleeves and no jacket and all other men are dressed in collared
shirts with long sleeves, you will be at a disadvantage before
you even open your mouth.
6. Culturally Appropriate - In today's global environment we
always need to be aware of what is ethnically suitable.
Especially if you will be traveling to a new region, it is wise
to do an internet search, ask your travel agent or someone
living in the location you will be visiting for advice on local
etiquette and proper attire.
A personal fashion style can easily differentiate you from
others. The fact is a positive impression can be generated even
if you aren't feeling particularly charming. As long as you have
a sense of who you are and wear what mirrors your native
coloring and innate physical design you will convey a
comfortable confidence and natural charisma.
Note ~ if you change your hair, eye or skin color or experience
aging, some of the colors and styles that look good on you may
change. You will need to adjust your wardrobe accordingly.
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