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Anniversaries and celebrations loom large for women than for
men. They represent the importance of the bonds they have formed
with others and failing to honor these days is a like a failure
to honor the relationship.
Men love to impress the women in their life with extravagant
gifts. But for the female of the species, it is not largess
which counts but the fact that you have remembered; it's not
about generosity, it is about thoughtfulness.
Planning is important. The last minute dash to the nearest shop
to buy a cheap bouquet when you have obviously forgotten the
anniversary is essentially making up for a crime you have
already committed - failing to appreciate the importance of her
place in your life. Yet ordering even the smallest posy or
flowering plant in advance, accompanied by a suitably worded
note, a well-chosen card and another small gift thoughtfully
selected goes a long way in being in her good graces. You can
select from the range of gifts that florists make available at
this time and throughout the year - a stuffed toy, a selection
of chocolates, or a beautiful and lasting setting for your
floral gift (such as a glass vase).
The point is to prove you have put some consideration into the
gift, that you know your woman well and that you have thought
about what she likes. She may have dropped a hint about what she
would like. Think back to conversations you have had with her
over the past few weeks. Or select something which relates to
her hobbies and interests. Chocolates and wine are always a
favorite, especially if you plan to accompany your gift by a
night out with an après-soirée or perhaps to have an evening in
where you do all the cooking and cleaning up for once. And don't
forget the option of tickets to a show.
Any florist will also tell you that flowers have a language all
of their own from the single rose with its beautifully
understated and elegant declaration of true love to the
unbridled passion of a dozen roses, from the sweet simplicity of
a posy to the extravagance of a bouquet. The orchid speaks of
deep desire while the flowering plant appeals to women who
appreciate a gesture but love a gift which lasts. You know your
woman. Pick what you know will win her heart.
Finally, you should think about the timing of your gift. Too
late in the day and it will seem like you forgot or only
remembered at the last minute. Too soon and it will lost in the
business of getting to work or getting kids off to school. A mid
morning delivery to the home or to your partner's office is the
perfect solution. And now is the time to order before the last
minute rush.
So take out your credit card now and pick up the phone...your
reward is already on its way.
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